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Written by Candace Czarny
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The odds are good that you have seen those people who seem to
magically draw people to them. They always seem to have a date
or someone who wants to date them. You're not alone. Many people
feel like everyone else is more successful in love than they
are. It has less to do with physical appearance, your bank
account, and being outgoing than you would think. It's often
more about using the positive energy in your life to fulfill
every aspect of your life including the romantic element.
You are probably wondering what all of this energy talk is all
about. You have heard of the ancient Chinese philosophy of Feng
Shui. It revolves around the concept of creating a space, your
home, that encourages the flow of positive chi. It affects every
aspect of your life in a good way if done correctly. This isn't
to say that every person with a successful love life uses Feng
Shui, but it certainly won't hurt to encourage some good vibes
to come your way in the love department. After all, we all want
to become a magnet for love.
So how does one go about using Feng Shui to become a love
magnet? The first step is pretty unexciting, but it does get
better. You will need to focus on the bedroom since you are
looking for romantic love. Cleaning the room from top to bottom
is an essential step that can't be overlooked. Just because no
one gets into your closet or looks under the bed doesn't mean
you can ignore those areas. They are important too.
Get rid of
things you no longer use or need. They create a hindrance to the
flow of good energy. While you are clearing things out that you
don't need, this is also a good time to get rid of any reminders
of old flames. You don't want that past energy infecting any
future or current relationship. If you don't want to throw the
out at least get them out of the bedroom. Make space for your
new love interest in the closet, leaving some hangers empty and
clear out a drawer of the dresser. This will encourage the
arrival of someone new.
Now that all of the things left behind from your old love life
is out of the room and you have a clean slate to start with,
take a good hard look at your bed. With any kind of luck, your
bed is no larger than a queen. A king sized bed is a hindrance
to the natural intimacy that you are looking for. With the
correct sized bed in place, you are well on your way to using
Feng Shui to become a love magnet of huge proportions, or at
least to the proportion that will find you a significant other.
Consider the placement of the bed in the room as well. There
should be room to walk on either side of it. If not, it isn't
very welcoming to a new lover and the positive energy will be
less efficient at moving about the space.
Still dealing with the bed, your choice of bedding is very
important in regards to Feng Shui as well. Just like every book
or article you have ever read about love and finding Mr. or Ms.
Right says, your bedding should reflect your desire for intimacy
and romance. Think about using satins, silks, or a high quality
all cotton sheet set that invites touching and romance.
Of equal
importance, you should also look for a comforter that is soft
and comfortable to lounge on. The color of your decor is
vitally
important as well. Without looking like a product of Hallmark,
you can create a romantic look that still fits in with your
personal style. If pink, white, and red aren't your idea of good
decorating colors, try using them as accents or in different
tones, like salmon or coral. Make your bedroom a haven even when
it is just you in it. Use plenty of throw pillows on the bed to
create the perfect place for relaxation. The rest, and the new
partner, are sure to follow soon with all of the positive energy
you have created.
Another thing to remember when you explore the new world of Feng
Shui and becoming a love magnet is to pay attention to the
photos you display in your bedroom. Keep pictures of the kids or
other family members in another room. There isn't anything sexy
about children's pictures or photos of dear old mom and dad.
Place those in the living or family rooms. Instead display
paintings and prints of happy couples or inviting scenery. It is
important to always have artwork depicting two items.
Feng Shui can help you turn into a love magnet in no time.
Before you know it, you'll be looking to this ancient practice
to further enhance your new found relationship.
About the Author:
Candace Czarny,ASID,CFM,LEED AP, "Award Winning" Interior
Designer, Feng Shui Expert & author of 20 Minute Feng Shui.
Visit her website: ArtOfFengShui
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